PRUNING TRIGGERS

Spring: After a beautiful time of abiding in Him and in my garden this weekend, I find myself wrestling with ghosts of old traumas and new triggers, and times past. It is also Mental Health Week in Canada.

On that note something a sister friend and mentor said the last time we spoke on the telephone together comes to mind:

The last time sister and I spoke, I told her about my fear of the 'hammer coming down' when it comes to family and work. She said something helpful and to the effect of: "Anytime fear of the hammer coming down hits-- say I reject you!. Use it as a stone to walk on so you can keep going forward."

With that recalled, I pray: LORD help me use political "#Me Too' and family triggers as stones to walk on to keep going forward.

LORD help me forgive the people who caused (and cause) the awful pain, loss and trauma I (and others) re-experience every time a another #MeToo and sexual assault story breaks.  

Prune my #Metoo and family unforgiveness.

Let both lead to something new and fruitful.

Cb
Amen

Below: Behold I Make all Things New Song by the Sisters of Life:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Sv5yXYqrLQ

 

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